Fostering a household with a partner is certainly one of its own challenges in life. Because anyone will want to foster a harmonious family with a partner until death separates.

But talking to the household, of course there are many role models that can be used as an example. For Muslims, the family of the Prophet Muhammad can certainly be one of the references and even the obligation in fostering the family.

Rasulullah SAW is an extraordinary example of a household. Not only as a family leader, but also about how to treat partners and children.

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The household description of the Prophet Muhammad SAW

Prophet Muhammad SAW is a figure that you can make as an example in fostering your family. Because the Messenger of Allah is a person who is famous for his love for young children, compassion for animals, concern for the weak and respecting women.

This is proven in his actions when building a household with a partner. The Messenger of Allah never viewed himself as a ruler while other family members, children and wife, as servants.

However, he always considers everyone in the family as important. Whether it's a partner or wife and children, considered an important part of a unity called family.

In addition, even though as a head of the family, the Prophet still participated in home duties. This also involves involving themselves in the care of children and grandchildren.

To the couple, the Messenger of Allah also always treats his wives with full honor. Here is a picture of how the household of the Prophet that you can make as an example.

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1.      The Prophet's house is decorated with worship

For Muslims, of course, they already understand that the main purpose of marriage is as a form of worship to Allah SWT. Therefore, you can imitate the family of the Prophet who always adorn his house with worship.

The Messenger of Allah always invites his wife to worship together, Shaum Sunnah and some other worship that can be done together. So, you as Muslims and family leaders can copy it.

2.      Far from anger and hatred

In domestic life, the Messenger of Allah is always far from anger and hatred. The Prophet Muhammad himself was a polite and patient person so that he had never issued harsh words or light hands to his wife or child.

It was even told that the Messenger of Allah had returned home late at night. Because he was reluctant to disturb Aisha who had fallen asleep, he decided to sleep in front of his door.

3.      Gentle and affection

A gentle and loving attitude is a reflection of the family of the Prophet Muhammad. The Messenger of Allah likens a wife as well as ribs, when straightened by force it can break.

However, if left unchecked it will remain bent without change. Therefore, a husband should have carried out the function as a leader but in loving ways.

4.      Good at please his wives.

The Messenger of Allah is a figure who is very painted by his wives and always tries to please him. In a history, the Messenger of Allah who was then old, wanted to serve his wife Aisyah for a running competition.

As a leader in the household , the husband must be able to please the family members including his wife. For example, by inviting couples for a walk, shopping together, helping homework and the like.

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Tips for maintaining harmony according to the guidance of the Prophet Muhammad

It has been explained how the picture of the Prophet's household To build a harmonious family according to the example of the Prophet Muhammad, there are some tips that you can apply.

Try to sleep with your partner with one blanket to maintain harmony. Next, usually to eat and drink together, even a plate of together or drink from the same glass to increase harmony.

Frequently to kiss your wife, not only the face but can also kiss his hand. You can also comb and caress your partner's hair, although it seems simple but effective to maintain harmony with your partner.

You can also help homework, be it sweeping or other things that can be done. Then, call your partner or wife intimate as what the Prophet did to his wives.

Then, spend time with a partner can chat or do things you like. With all these tips, you can increase household according to the example of the Prophet.

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Wallahu'alam

By Heri Mahbub

Quran Cordoba , inspires for love and living with the Koran

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